Updated: May 23, 2020
'Someone will walk into your life and make you see why it never worked out with anyone else!'
That's why I'm here.
I haven't had a bad life:
Bad choices - of course,
Silly mistakes - occasionally,
Regrets - not a chance.
My life has been one hell of a roller coaster and I could tell you about it all, but I want you to know that my past doesn't define me, its simply made me the person I am today.
I live every day with gratitude (or at least I try), I handle my personal life with military precision (most of the time) but sometimes my 'A' game can be off and I have shit day…
I have anxiety and I have been through the depression tunnel and been fortunate enough to come out the other side safely.
I have mental/hormone imbalances which has been labelled as PMDD (more on that later I promise - you won't want to miss out on the events that lead to the diagnosis).
Generally I have what I classed for a long time as - being completely unstable - mind body and soul. Yet here I am telling you I can help....why?
I am a proud mother to 3 beautiful, fierce and independent kids, 3 fur babies which are comparable to living with stroppy teenagers and I am working on a house (3rd move) that would have been better set on fire than renovated. The power of 3 seems to be a subconscious attraction I have.
People often ask me - where do I find the time, how do I cope, how can you manage with everything going on, the truth is - its the very thing that keeps me sane, I don't have time to sit and over analyze, over think if things are a good or bad idea, or worse, talk myself out of something that could be amazing. I just go with my gut. Yes sometimes if I'm feeling overwhelmed then things can get on top of me but overall if I'm pushed to my limits it's when I perform best.
I have been told that your best asset is also your worst, being passionate means that sometimes it can be hard to switch off, looking after others means you can sometimes forget about putting yourself first and for me, I'm still learning how to find the right balance for these - sometimes. But, I think it will always be a balancing act for any person, you just need to find the right tools.
With all the above, I have had some seriously great life experiences and stories (most of which will have you in tears of laughter!), I want to be able to share the knowledge I have gained and in turn, give you the tools required in order to prepare you to have the best life you can and be the best version of you that you want to be. It is that simple...
Let me show you that I am that person that can make you see why didn't work with anyone else!